Every so
The Essential Tool for Creating Lasting Relationships
Every So keeps you connected to the ones who matter,
because in every relationship, every second is priceless.
For those that matter
We often forget to stay in contact with those who matter. Whether the relationship is a permanent fixture such as a family member, or as transient as a sales opportunity, staying in contact matters. Even if it's just to say "hi" Every So often.
Privacy first
Every So does not store or transmit your data in any way. Reminders, dates, and how often a reminder occurs are stored entirely in your contacts.
Your data moves with you
As long as your contacts are synced to your various devices, so will your reminders. Every So uses your contact cards to store and read data.
step 1:
Categorize
Categorization helps you stay in touch with those you care about, keep your contact list clean of strangers, and understand the purpose of each contact. Swipe through your contacts list and categorize each of them based on your relationship with that contact. No more "when did I add this person?" or "what did this person do again?"
Step 2:
Setup Reminders
Create reminders to periodically catchup with important relationships, wish your contacts happy birthday or happy holidays, or create touchpoints with collaborators.
Examples:
| Name | Contact Type | Frequency |
|---|---|---|
| Catchup | Relationship | Once a week on Monday at 2:00pm |
| Birthday | Acquaintance | Every year on March 22 at 8:00am |
| Goal Check-in | Collaborator | Every other Friday at 10:00am |
step 3:
Prune
Just like a beautiful tree, your personal network must be pruned to continue to grow in an optimal manner. Use Every So to efficiently remove strangers and adversaries from your contact list to reduce clutter and optimize finding the right contact when you need it.
Learn the Categories
Relationship
Relationships are those that mean the most to you. You enjoy reaching out to them because they mean something to you. They could be a significant other, a family member, or a close friend.
dependent
A dependent relies on you for some aspect of their life. Whether they are a student, a child, somebody you are caring for, or a protégé, it is important to not forget about your dependents, as one day you might need them more than they need you.
collaborator
Collaborators come and go as your professional life and aspirations change. Collaborators are those you work with to accomplish a goal or move a project forward. It is important to setup regular touchpoints with your collaborators to ensure objectives are met.
Mentor
Mentors are the opposite of dependents, where you are the one who depends on them. A good mentor is one of the biggest assets you will acquire in life. Treat them well, don't just reach out to them when you need help, and the dividends will pay immensely.
Acquaintance
Acquaintances are cordial fleeting relationships you have in life. You might wish them happy birthday once a year, and pass each other in the hallway, or be in the same circle of friends. Acquaintances are a sort of transient contact, where eventually they will graduate to a relationship, or maybe drift away as a stranger.
Community
A community contact could be a neighbor, a fellow organization member, a participant in a group sport, or a member in the same religious body. Community contacts are great to have as a resource when you need information about an event, or inform about upcoming gatherings.
Resource
Resources are contacts where engagements with them are purely transactional. This is a contact where you reach out to them, and in exchange for value, they provide you with a service or goods. Examples of resources include shops, restaurants, electricians, plumbers, or HVAC technicians. A quiver of strong resources, especially where there is mutual respect, can go a long way in life.
Stranger
As life goes on and people change, so do your contacts. A best friend in elementary might be a distant memory of the past, and a new flame may be somebody you have never met before. Learn to prune your contacts list to keep your network as efficient as possible.
Adversary
Life will present you with challenges you must overcome, and sometimes those challenges are presented as individuals or groups. True adversaries that go against your way of life, spread hate, or berate you for little to no reason should be pruned swiftly from your network. However, don't conflate the concept of a critic and an adversary!
Are you ready to optimize your contacts list?
How to
Categorize: When you first open Every So, the green box on the far left, labeled "Needs Review," will display a large number of contacts requiring your attention. Simply click on the green box and categorize each contact using the categories listed above.
Setup Reminders: After categorizing your contacts, it’s time to focus on increasing your attentiveness. Attentiveness measures how well you’re staying in touch with your close relationships. Click on the second box labeled "Attentiveness" and set reminders for each relationship to reach 100% attentiveness.
Prune Contacts: Think of your network as a tree—some branches are bright and thriving, while others may wither over time. To help your relationships grow and flourish, it’s important to remove contacts you consider strangers or adversaries. Click the "To Cleanup" box to review and delete contacts that no longer belong in your list.
Privacy
Privacy Policy for Every SoIntroductionYour privacy is critically important to us. At Riptide Data, we respect your privacy and are committed to protecting the personal information you share with us. This Privacy Policy explains how we handle your information when you use our app.Data Collection and UseEvery So does not collect, store, or transmit any personal data. All information, including your contacts, remains stored locally on your device. The app operates entirely offline, ensuring that your data never leaves your device.Contacts InformationWhen you use Every So, the app accesses your contacts locally on your device to provide its functionality. This information is never uploaded to servers, shared with third parties, or used for any purpose outside of the app’s core features.No Data SharingWe do not share any information with third parties. No Personally-Identifying Information (PII), including contacts, usage data, or any other personal information, is shared, sold, or transmitted.Data SecurityWhile Every So does not transmit any data, we take reasonable measures to ensure the app is secure and functions as intended on your device. However, we recommend users secure their devices with strong passwords and other security measures to protect their data.Compliance with LawsEvery So complies with applicable data protection and privacy laws, including those related to user rights and data security. Since the app does not collect or transmit data, these obligations are naturally fulfilled.Privacy Policy ChangesWe may update this Privacy Policy from time to time to reflect changes in our practices or for other operational, legal, or regulatory reasons. Changes to this policy will be posted within the app, and users are encouraged to review this page periodically. Continued use of Every So after changes to the Privacy Policy constitutes your acceptance of those changes.User RightsSince Every So does not collect or store any data outside your device, there is no data to access, modify, or delete. All information is fully within your control and remains on your device.Limited WarrantiesWe do not warrant the completeness, accuracy, or uninterrupted availability of the app. The app is provided "as is" without any warranties, express or implied. Users accept full responsibility for their use of the app.To the maximum extent permitted by applicable law, we disclaim all warranties related to Every So, including implied warranties of merchantability, fitness for a particular purpose, and non-infringement.IndemnificationBy using Every So, you agree to indemnify and hold us harmless from any claims, damages, losses, liabilities, costs, and expenses (including legal fees) arising out of your use of the app or your breach of this Privacy Policy.Contact UsIf you have any questions or concerns about this Privacy Policy or your privacy while using Every So, please contact us at [email protected].By using Every So, you acknowledge and agree to this Privacy Policy. Your trust is important to us, and we are committed to ensuring your data remains private and secure.
Why did I build this?
I am on a mission to use technology to make myself more human. Every So is my first attempt at doing so. There are many relationships that I have accidentally let fade away with the excuse that "life got the best of me." Social networks are the equivalent of shouting into a room full of people, where most of the people in that room don't care what you have to say. Every So encourages you to reach out to the people that DO care at an individual and meaningful level, so that your relationship with them doesn't become weakened by time.
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